| Girls, if you liked a guy, would you be upset if he went to a swing dance class that you went to?

Girls, if you liked a guy, would you be upset if he went to a swing dance class that you went to?

nylentone asked:


I know this girl likes me. I asked her about the dance class she was going to because she obviously learned alot more than I did in the one I went to. She seemed ok with me going. So then when I did go, after the lesson (I was in the beginners class, she was in the advanced class) they put on music and you dance. I asked her to dance and she turned me down, and then she danced with other guys… when she wasn’t staring at me across the room. And then the next class, she came in when I was learning a move which involved me putting my arm around my partner (a different girl whose name I don’t even know) and my hand on her hip, and she had a bare midriff. I didn’t choose to dance with her, we just take turns and that’s who I was with. So the girl who likes me looks like her eyes are going to fall out and leaves. Then when I saw her later she looks all upset and yells at me that she doesn’t like me and I creep her out and don’t talk to her anymore. I didn’t for awhile but (continued)…
eventually she started talking to me again. And I really get the impression that she likes me. I didn’t see her at the dance class again until a long time later. And then when she saw me there, she looked really unhappy to see me. So I left. And then she was really upset at me, but I don’t know if it was because I showed up in the first place or that I left. But now she acts like she likes me still. So does she just not like me going to her dance class? Why would she like me but not want me to be there?

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2 Responses to “Girls, if you liked a guy, would you be upset if he went to a swing dance class that you went to?”

  1. kandy on May 21st, 2009 10:08 am

    She wants to make you jealous.

    I know it sounds weird, but some girls are just like that (usually really annoying, drama-ish girls). She’s too shy to tell you straight-up that she likes you, so she wants to get your attention any way she can so she can see if you like her back. It’s a common tactic and you shouldn’t go for it if she plays mind games with you like that. Unless you really liker her too, in which case I’d just suggest you ask her on a date. If she turns you down, then forget her. She’s annoying.

    Hope this helps.

  2. blueswirlyzebra on May 22nd, 2009 10:39 am

    well i dont know if u like her or not but it sounds like this girl just can’t make up her mind. my advice just be strait forward with her and ask her do like me or not. ur never gonna know if u dont just ask. we all have to take risks sometimes and unfortunatly this is one of them. i no how u feel though u just can’t controll wat other ppl feel or think and it sucks i no but we just have live with it thats just life. good luck hope i helped :)